What's the secret to harnessing your true potential? 

If the goal is to have more of what we DO want, why do we spend so much time thinking about what we don’t want?

In this episode, we dive into the intriguing journey of uncovering your desires and navigating the energies that shape your path.

From starting with a new client, to focusing on a new space in a client’s home, to mediating between my clients and their family members during a design project, I see this conversation come up often.

As a designer I have learned to ask “What do you want to feel like? What are you trying to achieve?” instead of asking “What are you looking for?”, to put them into a different energetic space. To dig deeper about what it is they really want.

In the design process many times I've heard people say
“I worked with a designer before and she wanted me to do this and it didn't really feel right and what I don't want is that to happen again,
what I don't want is my house to look like everybody else's,
what I don't want is my house to feel cold,
what I don't want is my house to feel cluttered.” 

While reflecting on some simple projects this week in preparation for a workshop, I started to hear those words coming up. It's the unconscious thoughts that show up in our daily lives, that offer insight when we take the time to recognize them. 

When we’re in the energy of “what I don't want is…” we’re in an entirely different energetic space than the acknowledgement of what we really desire.

A lot of people struggle with sitting in the energy of what they do want. 

From studying the Abraham Hicks philosophy I’ve realized how much value can be found in seeing what you don't want and realizing you can course-correct. Knowing that when you find yourself in that space of what I don't want, it is a clarification to move into the energetics of receiving  what you do want; i.e. manifestation. 

As a society (and with the way social media works) we have been taught through advertising and marketing, focusing and appealing to what we don’t want grabs our attention . So it's really easy to get stuck in that energy and hold on to it when the way forward is to move away from that energy.

When I sat back to reflect on my past 24 hours I saw myself stepping into the energy of what I don't want through simple choices as soon as I opened my eyes. I wasn’t allowing myself to step into the highest vibrational frequency possible. 

Making a different choice when I woke up could have shifted the energy that I was in and my ability to move through the things that I wanted to more quickly. 

I was able to recognize the energy that I was in fast enough to separate myself from it.

My friend, I hope that when you catch yourself in that energy of what you don't want, you can realize that it's a state of victimhood that we’ve put ourselves in.

Allow it to be valuable insight and a reminder to move into that state of what you do want.
Allow yourself to spend the rest of this magnificent day focusing on what you do want. 

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